Friday, December 29, 2006
Monday, November 27, 2006
Minus
Sunday, November 12, 2006
Thomas at the Park
Sunday, September 17, 2006
Making Cookies
Friday, September 15, 2006
Potty Time
Thomas is certainly interested. He was also showing all the signs of readiness, so even though he seems really young (just turned 16 months), we're doing it. I'm not going to push him, but if he's ready, he'll do it.
We're on day 6 right now and I am just astounded at his progress. The first day we went through 14 pairs of training pants. He would usually catch himself and not let a huge puddle out, but he also couldn't seem to relax on the potty and let it all out there either, so there was a TON of back and forth. After several days he started letting more and more go in the potty. So, here's the progression of how many pants we've gone through each day, starting on the first day:
14
9
6
5
3
and so far today he's gone through ZERO. We're still in our original pair from this morning. I also didn't clean up a single drop of pee off the floor yesterday! It's truly unbelievable. He naps in training pants and so far has only woken up wet (and then only slightly) once. We still use diapers at night b/c he still nurses, but once he stops nursing at night, we plan to try to wear underpants then too.
Don't get me wrong...we still have a ways to go, but he is getting there and making progress every day. We need to get to the point where he will just pee right when we sit on the potty instead of sitting there for 20 minutes. Sometimes he will go right away, but not every time. We also haven't had any poop in the potty yet. Thank goodness he only goes once a day!
So, overall, I'm SOOO glad we're doing this. I'm starting to go stir crazy at the house, but hopefully our seclusion will end soon.
p.s. the picture's not great b/c he jumps up every time he sees the camera b/c he wants to see the picture we just took.
Tuesday, September 05, 2006
Learning to Jump
Sunday, August 27, 2006
Why Waste a Tantrum?
Monday, August 21, 2006
Testing Writely
Sunday, August 20, 2006
Playing in the Gutter
Fun with Molasses
Tuesday, August 08, 2006
Little person
Saying night-night while laying his head down.
Helping around the house - with unloading the dishwasher, wiping spills, loading the dryer, watering the plants etc.
Climbing, climbing, climbing! He's been safely getting down from our bed on his own for at least several months now, but he's just now interested in getting up. It's really cute.
Understanding and responding to TONS of what we say, like: go get your shoe, go get your other shoe, take this to mama, daddy, gigi, etc, hold my hand, go to the bedroom, bring me that, eat it, don't eat it, stop, gentle, time for bed, go to the bedroom, lay down, sit down, stand up, where's your ball?, close that, open that, take a bath, and the kicker, pee pee goes in the potty! (Plus probably 100 more I can't think of right now).
Plus it seems like his vocabulary is exploding!
Our biggest development lately is his immense interest in the potty. He will pull at his diaper when he needs to go or right after he goes. He's been doing the sign for potty for a while, but lately he also wants to sit on the potty. The other day he did the sign and grabbed his diaper and walked into the bathroom. Then we heard him poop. WHAT?? And he did actually pee in the potty yesterday. I've read about "readiness" signs and he has all of them except for being dry for 3 hours. So, we're just going to explore the potty for now and see where it leads. I'm just taking his cue.
He's showing that he wants certain things lately and it's really fun. The other day he requested his hat when I said "let's go for a walk." And usually when he's getting drowsy at night I'll ask him "is it time for bed?" and he'll shake his head no (with his eyes half closed). But tonight he was nursing, looking drowsy and I asked him if it was time for bed and he signed "more" (which I think still means "I want"). At first I thought he didn't understand what I meant (yeah right!) but I took him in the bedroom and he calmly laid there while I changed him and then wouldn't you know it - nursed to sleep in 3 minutes flat!
I've been meaning to post all his words and signs for months but haven't gotten around to it until now. Here's the list:
Clearly intelligible: mama, papa (for his grampa nick), tractor, vacuum, hot, cat, uh-oh, this, water, hat, up, bug, night-night, ice.
Less so: truck, helicoptor, daddy, bubbles, ball, book, bite, apricots, pasta, puppy, bird.
Signs: fan, more, nurse, help, dog, outside, no, eat, water, book, light, phone, down, all finished, airplane, potty
Saturday, June 24, 2006
Tuesday, June 13, 2006
Tumbling Thomas
Thursday, June 08, 2006
The Love of Yogurt
Wednesday, June 07, 2006
The Backyard Pool
Sunday, June 04, 2006
Thomas Loves the Vacuum
Sunday, May 28, 2006
Thomas the Chef
Sunday, May 21, 2006
Thomas the Sailor Man
Sunday, May 14, 2006
Thomas Turns One
Thomas had his first taste of pure sugar in the form of a yummy chocolate cupcake (which his daddy spent all night preparing for him). Initially he asked for more, but after a few bites he lost interest and just wanted tons of water. He never even grabbed it, he just wanted me to give him bites. I am in no way complaining!! There's plenty of time to get addicted to sugar. His great-grandparents got him one of those old fashioned poppers and it was a huge hit. He had a great time walking it all over the place. Of course, probably his favorite thing to do at any park is to chase the birds and/or squirrels, and his party was no exception. After all that partying though, he was exhausted and crashed before we were even out of the parking lot.
When we went to bed I was looking at him sleeping and thinking back to that same night exactly one year ago. I almost started crying just thinking about what we would go through for the next several months (not sure the correct tense to use when talking about the future of a memory - or how to even say that!). It was all so overwhelming. We had no idea what to expect or what to do. The first 3 or 4 months with Thomas were very hard for us. Even aside from the huge breastfeeding struggles, was just the adjustment factor. It has taken us a long time to find balance with a baby and with being a family - being parents! - instead of just two adults. That's not to say that we're there, but we're a heck of a lot closer.
Having a baby is not what I thought it was going to be. First and foremost it's 100 times harder. It's lonelier, it's more boring. But it's also more amazing, moving, and grounding. He astounds me every day with what he can do and with what he wants to do. He is helping me learn patience and how to stay in the moment and what's really important in life. Everyone has heard moms say how you never know how much love you can feel until you have a child and it's true. Sometimes I just feel like I love him so much I can't stand it! What do I do with all this feeling? It almost reminds me of labor, but in an emotional way. Often it's difficult to be so utterly needed, but then he looks up at me with those big blue eyes, completely content to just nurse and I take a deep breath and remember he won't be small forever. There's a wonderful saying from a book I read recently that I've really tried to take to heart - "nothing has meaning but the meaning you give it." So, when I'm trying to finish the dishes and he keeps coming up to me, demanding to be held, I could get frustrated. Or - I could choose to hold my sweet little man and enjoy the fact that he wants to be held. The dishes sure don't care.
I'm including a link to my birth story in case anyone hasn't read it and wants to. I've been thinking about that day a lot this past week. At 4:00 pm on May 13, 2005 Thomas wasn't here. At 4:01 he was (ok, so he was here for 9 months prior to that day, but we didn't meet him until then). I remember thinking: Where did he come from? Who is he? Where are his parents?? This little person suddenly appeared and was utterly dependent on us (mostly me). I'm so happy that I can look back on that day happily. Everything went exactly as nature designed it to go. I'm glad we were at home. There was no time to think or question whether or not I could do it or if someone would "have to" help me. My body just did it. It was the most powerful thing I'm likely to experience in my life. Until next time of course.
Something I think only other parents can understand is that this past year has been the longest and shortest of my life. I hope Brad and I are able to savor these first years and roll with the challenges. Although sometimes it seems hard to believe now, I'm sure someday we'll look back longingly on this time.
Here's a link to the pictures on Smugmug and I've posted a slideshow of pictures taken during the first year. Enjoy...
Friday, May 12, 2006
The Evolution of Dance
Friday, May 05, 2006
Unstoppable Cleaning Machine
When he wakes up in a little while I'm going to go buy him his own vacuum so that maybe he'll be content to play with it on his own instead of demanding that I vacuum the house all day. I mean, I like a clean house, but geez!
Wednesday, May 03, 2006
Bouncing Ball Fun
Sunday, April 30, 2006
Hypno-Birthing Reunion Picnic
More Park Fun
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Happy Easter!
Tuesday, April 04, 2006
Good morning to you
Yesterday he also stood at the door signing more - wanting to go outside. And the other night I was tickling him and I would stop and he would sign more. Its hilarious! I'm really glad we are doing sign language b/c it really makes you realize how much they understand and how early.
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Mmm...Dog food
I did end up taking the dog food away since he kept putting it in his mouth, but he had a great time with the water. I've got a little video I'll try to add later, but for now it's just pictures.
Pantry fun
He's also wasting no time in learning how to climb. Last night he leaned over the toy box and grabbed the opposite side and proceeded to pull himself up on top of it. Great...a climber.
The coolest thing though is watching his progression to standing up by himself. At first every time he'd plop down he'd just cry until someone came and helped him up. Then about a day later he figured out that he could crawl to things to pull himself up instead of waiting around for us. Now he's working on getting his feet under him and pushing himself up with his hands. He did it once yesterday, but several other times it just resulted in a face plant.
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Another Cute Video
I'm using this video as an excuse to try out a program I read about in PC Magazine. It's called Qumana. I had never heard of it before I read about it. It's basically an offline blogging tool with many more features than just the web based posting of Blogger. Take a look here at Qumana.com.
Now... on to the cute video. I only have my digital camera to take videos, so unfortunately the quality is never that great. It will do for now though, until I get a real camcorder. I've also been trying out different video editing software. I've tried Pinnacle Studio Plus 10, CyberLink Power Director 5, Windows Movie Maker and Adobe Premiere Elements 2.0. CyberLink was actually the easiest to use of them all, but it lacked some more pro features that I thought I would use in the future. Pinnacle just didn't do it for me at all. It was a strain on my computer resources. I have a P4 2.0 with 1GB of RAM which by in large is pretty good for most tasks. I think I've settled on Adobe. After some getting used to it seems to have the best of both worlds. It can do a whole lot and seems pretty simple to use. Ok.. back to the cute video.
This was just some video I took of Thomas while Sorcha, Thomas and I were playing in his room. The video was taken on the 18th, so he wasn't walking much at all. He was just cruising. It wasn't until a week or so ago he decided to walk on his own. He is just the cutest thing around. Hope you like.Oh yeah, and I'm trying out YouTube. It seems pretty cool. It's like Flikr for videos. You upload your videos, name them, describe them and tag them. You then can view everyone else's videos with the same tags. I've uploaded some other videos that I haven't put on the blog. Take a look.
Sunday, March 26, 2006
And he's off...
Of course, he's also finally worked out this crawling business as well. He's a much more efficient walker though. Now all he has to master is standing up from a sitting position (without something to pull up on) and he won't need me anymore!! Ok, maybe he'll kind of need me...
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
A Little Boy
Tuesday, March 21, 2006
Light!!
Oh! And you can also ask him where his belly is and he'll show you - about half the time. Weird! I can't believe I have an almost-one year old....
Sunday, March 19, 2006
Person of the Year
Some Play Time
Saturday, March 18, 2006
Walking
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
SuperFriends
Thomas and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Week
Poor little man was so sick of being attacked with a tissue and/or medicine that he eventually became wary of a hand coming in his direction. The picture is how he fell asleep after lunging to get away from me to avoid a swipe of the nose. He just fell onto the pillow and cried (and 30 seconds later, fell asleep). This is extremely unusual for him in that if he's crying, he's always also reaching for me. I don't think he's ever cried and been happy to be away from me at the same time before.
I'd say this was easily one of the hardest weeks of my life. And he really wasn't even all that sick. Hats off the mamas in our playgroup who went through Rotavirus. Luckily if/when he gets that sick, I can (and WILL) call in reinforcements - GiGi.
I don't know what he had (and neither did the doctor), but I'm guessing it was just a virus of some kind. He had a really bad runny nose, a fever for several days and then a cough. The hard part was sleeping. The first two days he just wanted to be held non-stop. He would just lay his head on your shoulder and whimper. Talk about heart-wrenching! But those days were actually easier than the rest of the week because once he felt well enough to play (a little), he wanted to get down all day, but then everything that happened was HORRIBLE. He was standing and fell on his bottom - EARTH SHATTERING. He bonks himself in the head with a book - THE HORROR! He wanted to play but just couldn't cope with anything. By Thursday (started previous Friday night) I was on the verge of a breakdown. Of course, like many unpleasant things, my memory of last week is already starting to grow fuzzy. Honestly, sometimes I'm not sure how we'd get through this parenting adventure if that weren't the case.
Friday, February 10, 2006
Forgotten Videos
Brad made a little folder of them all, here.
The first one is just really cute giggling. The second one is the first time he pulled up to standing on his own. Then we have him walking while holding onto fingers. And probably my most favorite video we've ever taken of him is the next one. You can't really tell what's happening, but I'm behind Thomas (in his highchair) throwing treats to Charlie and Charlie is jumping up in the air to get them. Every time Charlie jumps, Thomas is startled and then cracks up laughing.
The last one is around the time that he started giving kisses. This is my favorite thing he's ever learned how to do. Now he'll kiss puppets and Charlie and if a face comes close to his he'll kiss it, but at the beginning he wasn't so liberal with his kisses.